Bearing the Unbearable: Love, Loss, and the Heartbreaking Path of Grief – by Joanne Cacciatore, PhD

Bearing the Unbearable

Grief can be overwhelming, and no one in common society really talks about what to do with it, or even what it’s like. When a loved one dies, the pain of loss can feel unbearable and the process of grieving can feel wild and nonlinear, and often lasts much longer than others tell us it should.

Organized into fifty-two short chapters, Bearing the Unbearable is a companion for life’s most difficult times, revealing how grief can open our hearts to connection, compassion, and the very essence of our shared humanity. Dr. Joanne Cacciatore—bereavement educator, researcher, Zen priest, and leading counselor in the field—accompanies us along the heartbreaking path of love, loss, and grief. Through moving stories of her encounters with grief over decades of supporting individuals, families, and communities—as well as her own experience with loss—Cacciatore opens a space to process, integrate, and deeply honor our grief.

Bearing the Unbearable is an experience more than a book. In recounting many cases from her extraordinary therapy practice devoted to helping people who are undergoing severe and traumatic grief, the book offers the reader an experience that – like grief itself – is painful but for which one will be deeply grateful afterwards.”   
— Dr. Jerome Wakefield,
DSW, PhD, Professor, NYU School of Medicine and author of The Loss of Sadness